Ep. 193: Rethinking Feminism for Collective Liberation w/ author Serene Khader

In this episode, we explore  the transformative ideas presented in Faux Feminism: Why We Fall for White Feminism and How We Can Stop with author Serene Khader.  The conversation begins with the author's unique perspective on feminism, shaped by her personal and academic journey, and the central thesis of the book: dismantling "The Freedom Myth." This pervasive misconception reframes feminism as individual freedom rather than collective equality, leaving systemic oppression intact. Each chapter unpacks a different "myth" surrounding modern feminism, from the "Restriction Myth" of equating oppression solely with personal limitations to the "Individualism Myth," which falsely prioritizes personal success over structural change. The discussion also tackles intersectionality, cultural hegemony, and the role of privilege in perpetuating inequality. Together, we explore practical solutions for breaking down entrenched hierarchies, the need for solidarity in feminist movements, and how societal structures must evolve to achieve true liberation. Whether you're new to these ideas or looking to deepen your understanding, this episode is for you!

Do Your Fudging Homework

  • Annie: Read this book to support Serene’s work. It’s available everywhere in every format. Get to it and support your local bookseller in the process!

  • Serene: Learn about movements to value domestic and care labor. National Domestic Workers Alliance. 

  • Hope: Read things that push you outside of your comfort zone or reframe ideas.

Ep. 112: On Proximity To Power w/ Author Tiffany Bluhm

EQ: What is the role of women in religious communities to call out the patriarchy and fight against injustice in 2021?  

Guest: Tiffany Bluhm, author of Prey Tell: Why We Silence Women Who Tell the Truth and How Everyone Can Speak Up. She is a sought after speaker, writer, and podcast co-host of the popular podcast Why Tho, a show answering the existential and nonsensical questions we ask ourselves, with author and speaker, Ashley Abercrombie. More information can be found at her website.

In this episode we discuss the role of conservatism  that dominates conversations about gender equality, especially in religious spaces. The role of women (specifically in Christian contexts) in enabling the patriarchy because of things like “niceness at the expense of being honest” but also the power they have to dismantle misogyny. We cannot wait around for someone to “give women permission.” Instead we need to examine our proximity to power and do something with it.

🥂 All those teachers that are back in the classroom, showing up and teaching their students, all through a global pandemic

👎🏻Texas for passing their law essentially banning abortions and denying women access to their Health Care

Do Your Fudging Homework:

  • Hope: Get a copy of Prey Tell even if you aren’t religious or check out her podcast Why Tho?

  • Tiffany: Consider our own proximity to power

Ep. 32: #DangerousMom’s Perspective on Childbirth, Motherhood, and Advocacy

EQ:  Why is being a stay-at-home-parent a fulltime, bad-ass job that we need in 2018?

Guest: Tobi Tommaney, Tacoma-raised, birth doula, wife, and mother.

In this episode we discuss:

  • Why Tacoma is the best place to raise a family

  • How you can be a block mom, a #dangerousmom, and a general bad-ass

  • How women’s bodies are strong and powerful---we just have to listen to ourselves.

  • The difference between pain and suffering

  • Midwifery, being a doulah, and why you should use the lotus method for your placenta

  • An insider’s perspective on the Tacoma Teacher Strike

  • Most importantly, why you are enough and just showing up to speak your truth is ENOUGH! We need to make sure our legislators and school board know they are there to serve the community!

Do Your Fudging Homework:

  • Show up at a school board meeting, email your legislator and speak up!